How to live a good life? Respecting ourselves and respecting the right of others to live their life in their way as long as they do not by their actions take away the rights of others is a good start. Use your common sense and empathy if you have it to guide you. People you encounter on the internet who try to lower your spirit in some way are damaged people do not take on board their bitterness. No one can know you as you know yourself. Be kind to yourself and others.